There should be a harmony of all roles: mother, grandmother, eternal daughter, a woman with a career, and, of course, a mistress (ideally in an unformed guest marriage with insurance from suitors-the elderly and even relatively young, with the prospect of parasitism and property). Optimally, there should be only a guest marriage for communication. And children should not take advantage of elderly parents, forcing them into convenient roles for them ( but not the parents). Well, and most importantly, you need to monitor dementia, so that the elderly guest mistress is not insane and feeble-minded. Control of children is necessary. It is not necessary to deprive the old elderly parents of the last amusements. Accelerated aging and senility, alas, begins, thanks to the cessation of sexual functions and needs.
Control over the normality of the mental (intellectual and emotional-volitional state) of old parents is necessary, not to mention control over their health. And the children of the elderly should know this and be responsible.
Associate Professor of IPO KFU, Candidate of Psychological Sciences Ramil Garifullin
If an old woman does not appreciate grandchildren, wants a lover or plans to marry?
If an old woman does not appreciate grandchildren, wants a lover or plans to marry?
