Mothers ' psychoses and childbirth: when to give birth?

Nurseries save many young mothers fr om attacks of neuroses and even psychoses caused by long-term stay with the child. There are such children and babies who bring young mothers to such an attack.

As a psychologist and psychotherapist, I am grateful for the existence of a nursery! How many mothers ' souls have been saved from this hellish mental strain of a mother's long-term stay with her child during the decree!

Of course, this problem is psychological and individual! But it is not for nothing that there has always been an institute of nannies, governesses and nurseries.

A decree is not just a mother's exhaustion. This is, sometimes, a source of neuroses and psychoses! Add to this the problem of mental postpartum injuries and now a rattling mental mixture has already formed, which can lead a young mother to disability!

It should be remembered that if the appearance of a domestic cat or dog does not help a woman to give up the desire to have a child, it is difficult to solve this problem. Many pets help with this problem. Many husbands get cats and this saves the family from poor and irresponsible whittling of children. Alas! Large families, often it's a horror!

A woman should deeply understand what she wants: a cute little living creature sucking a breast or the birth of a Person! If this is the first, then you can lim it yourself to a kitten. If the desire is more mature and objective, then it's time to become a Mother.

If the desire to give birth is only a favor to the husband, then this is also a problem!

If the birth of a child is a new highest stage of Love between spouses! Then it's fine! This is probably a mature choice!



Associate Professor of the Institute of Psychology and Education of KFU, Candidate of Psychological Sciences Ramil Garifullin